Hank is 4 weeks old today. Tommy is very slowly starting to calm down and get used to having a little brother. The transition for T has been much harder than we thought it would be. Note to future moms of two plus kids: 2.5 years apart has not been a good space for us. Tommy is just old enough to know exactly that someone new is stealing his attention yet not old enough to express himself appropriately. We spend a lot of the day trying to help him say things like, "I feel very angry (sad, excited, etc) right now." Then we have to show him what to do to express those feelings. When he is excited he is supposed to do gymnastics or jumping jacks on the floor (not the bed) instead of driving trains on Hank. Mad=hitting a pillow instead of biting my leg. You get the idea...
The other main topic of conversation around here is my nipples. Tommy is fascinated that milk comes out of them, that they move when I use my toy (the pump), and that they have owies on the "tips." Main goals for this week are to get Hank on a 3 hour feeding schedule and start the Weight Watchers plan for nursing moms. I've also been easing back into my weight workouts at the gym and trying to learn about a new animal with T each day online. He picks very strange ones like marmosets. He must get that from David.
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Hang in there Adreienne. Sounds like things are going well. I don't think there is a such thing as the perfect amount of space. Any older and they don't play together much as younger kids and coming from having mine at 20 & 23 months apart that was very difficult for other reasons. It was like having 2 babies at the same time.
I don't know anne I don't think, but I do echo her "no perfect spacing" comment. God knew what was perfect for our family even though many times I have serious doubts and I am sure there will be benefits eventually! I am jealous that you get to go on the WW nursing plan! I loved it - I lost a ton of weight and ate a lot. I have started running and am anxious to talk with you about it sometime. I really hope we all get time together in CO this summer. We want to meet baby Hank! I showed Papa the pics of him when I was out at the cabin (nancy has internet now!!!) okay I could keep blabbering forever! Love you - thinking of you a lot!!
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